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February 16, 2007

Brian Leiter in the Standford Encyclopedia 's entry on Nietzsche's Moral and Political Philosophy says:

Nietzsche, then, has no political philosophy. He occasionally expresses views about political matters, but, read in context, they do not add up to a theoretical account of any of the questions of political philosophy. He is more accurately read, in the end, as a kind of esoteric moralist, i.e., someone who has views about human flourishing,

He concludes by saying that Nietzsche offers us a severe regime for the realization of individual potential — at least for the select few.

Though Nietzsche certainly was not a systematic philosopher, I find Leiter's claim that there is no political dimension to Nietzsche's text suprising, given that Nietzsche aimed to revolutionize society and culture and that Nietzsche is an aristocratic political thinker who dams democracy as an expression of modern nihilism. For Nietzsche, as well as for the ancients, philosophy was always more than the discourses of philosophers; such discourses had to reflect and be integrated into a practice of living. Nietzsche’s therapeutic project, if you like, is to “heal” nihilistic-modernity.

Secondly, maybe Nietzsche addressed specific issues in political philosophy such as friendship. The intimacy of friendship and philosophy is deep in classical philosophy and the consubstantiality of the friend and the philosopher was taken for granted. Aristotle, for instance, eighth and ninth books of the Nicomachean Ethics. argued that one cannot live without friends, that it is necessary to distinguish between friendship founded on utility and on the pleasure of virtuous friendship (in which the friend is loved as such), that it is not possible to have many friends, that friendship at a distance tends to result in oblivion, etc.

Today the relation between friendship and philosophy has actually fallen into disrepute. So how did Nietzsche address this issue?

Nietzsche was more ambivalent: the necessity of friendship and, at the same time, a certain distrust towards friends was a key of Nietzscheʼs strategy. In Beyond Good and Evil political “friendship” is understood in terms of solitude (hermits) and references to the cultivation of agonistic friendships abound. In the "Our Virtues" section of this text Nietzsche writes:

Beware of those who attach great value to being credited with moral tact and subtley in making moral distinctions. They never forgive us once they have made a mistake in front of us (or, worse, against us); inevitably they become our instinctive slanders and detractors, even if they should still remain our "friends". (para 217)

In a latter section entitled 'What is Noble', where Nietzsche is discussing master and slave morality, he links friends and enemies within a value creating master morality. He says that this morality is alien and embarrasing to present tastes as it is beyond good and evil and the adds:
The capacity for, and the duty of long gratitude and long revenge---both only among one's peers---refinement in repaying, the sophisticated concept of friendship, a certain necesssity for having enemies (as it were, as drainage ditches for the effects of envy, quarrelsomeness, exuberance--at bottom in order to be capable of good friends): all these are typical characteristics of noble morality which, as suggested, is not the morality of "modern ideas" and therefore is hard to empathize with today, also hard to dig up and uncover. (para. 260)

Presumably, the sophisticated concept of friendship is an agonistic one. It is not one based on utility as that is a part of slave morality.

| Posted by Gary Sauer-Thompson at 6:37 AM | | Comments (3)
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Nietzsche says:

"In a friend one should have one's best enemy." (Zarathustra, Part One, p.83)

I believe friendship, as you say, is an ambivalent topic in Nietzsche's writings. For one thing the Hermit seeks solitude and affirmed distance from the rabble and crowd.

Yet at the same time one finds such quotes as above, whereof the friend is esteemed, though as an enemy. From my reading of Nietzsche I am quite the skeptic when such ambiguous flags are raised in relation to his other aphorisms, rather i try to think within the context to extract my meaning from it.

He goes on to say:

"Have you ever seen your friend asleep--and found out how he looks? What is the face of your friend anyway? It is your own face in a rough and imperfect mirror." (Zarathustra, Part One, p.83)

So I guess the friend is one who, despite resemblance, must be resisted to the point of being his best enemy.
There is no compassionate friendship for the overman, no overt submission (to anything external anyway).

The interesting idea here is Nietzsche's affirmative conciliation of the two public opposites: friend and enemy.
One must be fearful of unconditional friendship here. For by maintaining a persistent distance from a friend, the emotional barrier would no longer be an obstacle, and the disposition to wage war or harm upon him/her would be that much more prepared, less shocked. One must be ready to dispose of them as well, if they are unyielding to the individual.

As to the second quote...what can I say, the man never ceases to amaze me. So the friend is to be seen as one's reflection, a rough, imperfect reflection. So one's imperfect reflection is something to be overcome, a stepping stone, a certain phase or past persona. Then friends, chronologically, are to be embraced and discarded, so long as the Self's reflection remains, to use Nietzsche's rhetoric, more powerful, more affirmative, more perfect. His overman is not bred to ever be, but persistently become, overcoming with his iron-fisted will.

Therefore, one should rather look for enemies to befriend in the agonistic sense. Any other type of friendship is either despondent or Self-negating.

Kaveh,
Thanks for that. I've just read the section entitled, "Of the Friend", in Thus Spoke Zarathustra you mention above. It develops the idea of 'agonistic friendship' that was merely alluded to in Beyond Good and Evil. In the above mentioned section Nietzsche says :

Our longing for a friend is our betrayer.....If you want a friend, you must be willing to wage war for him, and to wage war you must be capable of being an enemy. You should honour even the enemy in your friend. You should honour even the enemy in your friend. Can you go near to your friend without giving over to him?(p.82)

Very dialectical. As a part of master morality friendship has no place for pity.

Another erudite commentary on friendship was provided by Joseph Addison in his play, Cato, in which Cato's son, Portius, says to his brother, Marcus:

"Marcus, the friendships of the world are oft

Confederacies in vice, or leagues of pleasure;

Ours has severest virtue for its basis,

And such a friendship ends not but with life."

This conception is derived from the traditional idea of friendship, as elaborated by Cicero, which had three essential components:

1. pleasure, friends must enjoy one another's company

2. utility, friends must be useful to each other, and

3. a common commitment to the good.

I think this third component is central to Nietzsche's thought on friendship. In Zarathrustra, he writes:

"In one's friend one shall have one's best enemy. Thou shalt be closest unto him with thy heart when thou withstandest him".

He also writes:

"Thou canst not adorn thyself fine enough for thy friend; for thou shalt be unto him an arrow and a longing for the Superman."

Nietzsche is saying that one of the main duties of friends is to help one another to be better persons. One must not be a flatterer, who only tells the person what they want to hear. Instead, they must tell them the truth, even if they do not want to hear it. Doing this may lead your friend to call you their "enemy", but in fact "Thou shalt be closest unto him with thy heart when thou withstandest him". By telling the truth, and by living by that truth, one holds up a standard for one's friend that makes them want to be a better person, that fills them with "a longing for the Superman."

In "Habits of the Heart", by Robert Bellah, and a number of other sociologists, write:

"friendship and its virtues are not merely private: they are public, even political, for a civic order, a 'city' is above all a network of friends. Without civic friendship, a city will degenerate into a struggle between contending interest groups unmediated by any public solidarity".

Thus, ironically, it takes a society of "enemies" in order to have a society of solidarity! From this one could also infer that a lack of "antagonism" in friendships would lead to the rise of demagogues.